RISK IT OR YOU MAY MISS THE BISCUIT--THE CHOICE:

"life in an assorted biscuit tin.

Lift the lid to see what is in".

WHEN COMES THE TIME YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS.

NO SIZE FITS FOR WHEN NATURE MAKES ITS CALL.

NO RIGHT ANSWERS FOR SHOCK DIAGNOSIS BRAWL.

OPTION TO CARE AND SHARE, MAKE IT LESS A LOSS.

OPTION TO BOOST THE TEAM FOR THE BETTER GOOD.

TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE COLLECTIVE SPACE OF TIME.

WITH THE GOAL TO RETURN TO A HEALTHY PRIME.

A SHARING OF KNOWLEDGE TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD.

SHARE IT OR HIDE-OR MAYBE INSPIRE

There are there are no set of rules to this game.

For sure and certain all old rules are set aside.

THE RISKS:

·        Exposing oneself

·        Of intruding in others pain.

·        Exposing who want to hide away

THE BENEFITS:

·        To be part of a wider team of sharing and caring.

·        Finding what works for them may work for me.

·        Immediate understanding, requiring few words.

To Intrude is a risk but maybe to inspire, just like I have been inspired.

What to do when comes the shock diagnose becomes the focus of not only yourself but of your family all around.

A team event becomes the new life focus for all concerned.

When comes the time the only weekly outing away from home, is for the treatment room.

A cancer view alternative A CHOICE:

·        To evaluate a path of little choice.

·        To Hide or not to hide.

·        To intrude or leave alone.

QUESTION: When is appropriate to make a comment.

Remains a question of which there is no answer.

When a fellow member of the slips to the other side.

You hardly know them but make the decision to go.

A local memorial should I attend or stay at home.

Truly glad to make the effort from my comfort zone.

THE START:

An inspiration with a simple question.

“Walking into the local supermarket I am approached by a local, with a smile and a question, genuinely asking after my health and progress”

“Told me of her own family experience progress”

 Come the time of memorial filled the room.

A litany of speakers spoke of:

·        Connection of local sporting youth in multiple codes.

·        Not expanding upwards for self-accolades.

·        Answering a question of a measure of achievements, long unanswered question of my own.

The measure of achievement is rarely for the individual to judge.

It is others in memory to store when and where, most likely of a time you were not aware.

SO MANY QUESTIONS AND SO FEW ANSWERS.